Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Saturday, September 5, 2009
Paris is always burning
Im to honest god im trying my hardest. But for some reason, no matter how hard i try i relapse and have to start all over again. Im leaving for somewhere that doesnt even remotely remind me of you. One of those instance where flying under the radar is essential for survival.
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
I wish i could love you like i used to
Love is only as complicated as we make it to be, its only as painful as we want it to be, and its only as amazing as we hope it to be.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
over exertion
Life rarely gives you any kind of breathing room, especially of people in my disposition. So you fight and you take every inch you can get, and hold on has tight as possible. Because you might not get another chance at it. That tiny inch can mean the difference between a good day and a bad day...
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Monday, August 17, 2009
for the gullible in all of us
I think self-help books are a waste. All the advice, all that knowledge is good or only works for you in context. And when it's not applicable, then it just sits there in our minds, oversaturating us with useful yet irrelevant information. And that over abundance of uneeded information tends to make us use it in situations that they clearly don't belong to. But we force the information to fit, like eventually sticking a square peg through a round whole by sheer force, which deforms the peg, shaving off the corners that essentially made a square peg in the first place.
Now I have no quarrel with self-help books if they do happen to fit your situation, or give you the answers you need, but all that knowledge should be attained through experience, no matter how painful the process may be. Because that experience let's us know when and where to apply that said knowledge. Experience creates context, in which that vital phrase or rule or learned common sense about a subject becomes relatable and actually makes sense.
We, as a species, as part of the human condition, are always searching for the answers. But in that endless but necessary routine we tend to find answers that don't have a question. And for some reason we can't seem to part with that idea since having the answer without the question, sometimes, is almost as excruciating as not knowing the question to an answer. So please. Throw your self help books away because they take away from the phrase itself. Help yourself, and don't have others tell you how to do so. Only you can truly know yourself. Unless of course you're dealing with a mind reader/psychic. But that's whole other situation. Lol.
Now I have no quarrel with self-help books if they do happen to fit your situation, or give you the answers you need, but all that knowledge should be attained through experience, no matter how painful the process may be. Because that experience let's us know when and where to apply that said knowledge. Experience creates context, in which that vital phrase or rule or learned common sense about a subject becomes relatable and actually makes sense.
We, as a species, as part of the human condition, are always searching for the answers. But in that endless but necessary routine we tend to find answers that don't have a question. And for some reason we can't seem to part with that idea since having the answer without the question, sometimes, is almost as excruciating as not knowing the question to an answer. So please. Throw your self help books away because they take away from the phrase itself. Help yourself, and don't have others tell you how to do so. Only you can truly know yourself. Unless of course you're dealing with a mind reader/psychic. But that's whole other situation. Lol.
Saturday, August 15, 2009
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